My Boyfriend’s Gay Brother is Hitting On Me

Dear Andreus, My boyfriend’s brother has been coming over to visit our place frequently.  They were estranged and hadn’t spoken for years because of some...

I’m Afraid My Friend’s Addiction Might Cost Him His Life

Dear Andreus, A dear friend of mine has succumbed to addiction. I am not sure the circumstances that have led to his meth addiction, but...

My Boyfriend Came Home with an STD

Dear Andreus, My boyfriend came home with an STD.  He swears that he has not cheated, and that it must have been me that gave...

My Boyfriend Raised His Hand to Me

Dear Andreus, My boyfriend and I recently had an argument, and though we have disagreements sometimes like every couple, this time was different.  He gets...

I Have a Fear of Commitment

Dear Andreus, I have a fear of commitment.  For this reason, I feel like I have missed the boat a few times or lost out...

How Do I Date As An Older Gay Man?

Hello Andreus, As my subject line says I am old and have been alone most of my entire adult life. I have had a few...